when you're upset, when you suffer from setbacks, you get emotional . you start wondering why some people's lives seem so much better than yours, like it's all smooth sailing, but yours, is like a path full of obstacles. maybe, just maybe, some people's lives may seem perfect, but they are not what it seems like. they might have a lot you don't have, but you have a lot they do not have also. try not to wallow in self-pity. treasure every single thing you have. it's not easy especially during the period of time when you're down. but once you got over the depression from the setback, remember this : you are alive and healthy now, while many others are maybe disabled or struck with diseases. you probably have a complete family, while many others are broken and fragmented. you have proper clothes to wear, enough food to eat, nice home to live, while many others are wearing torn and old clothes, suffering from famine, and living on the streets. you are way luckier than all these people. all these setbacks in life, it would only make you stronger. smile and welcome them with wide arms. sometimes when you feel like crying, smile. keep smiling. let the happiness flood through you. and the last thing is, you're not alone. Millions and millions of people are probahly having situations like yours or even worse.

right,that's all i guess,loveyataggers :D